Dear Alden,
Today is November 17, and you are one month old! Part of me
can’t believe it’s already been a month because it has really gone so fast, but
another part of me feels like you’ve always been here. It’s hard to remember
what life was like before you.
You came into this world fast and furious {and I thank you
greatly for the “fast” part}. You changed our lives instantly, and in the best
ways possible. You were a teeny little thing when you were born, but you’re
already growing into such a big boy. It makes me sad and happy at the same
time; I love that you’re healthy and growing, but I do not want this to go too
fast. I know it will though. I know I will simply blink and you’ll be a toddler,
or at least it will feel that way.
You came home from the hospital wearing newborn clothes, but
after about two weeks, you were busting out of those and moving into three
month sizes. Some are still a little big on you, but with the rate you’re
growing, it won’t be long before they’re the perfect fit. You were also wearing
newborn size diapers when you came home, but you quickly outgrew those and are
now in size 1.
We have your one month check-up in a few days, so I’m not
sure what you weigh, but I would guess around 9 lbs. And as for height, you
seem pretty tall to me. Your 3 month sleepers all seem a little short. We’ll
have to see in a few days.
You have dark hair, which completely surprised your dad and
me. We were expecting another blondie like your brother. But you have brown
hair with some reddish tints. And you have lots
of it. Some people say you might lose your hair. Your brother didn’t, but he
didn’t have as much as you. We’ll just have to see. You also have blue eyes
just like me, Daddy, and Leland. I don’t see that changing.
Your first week, you were eating every hour. Which, I’m not
going to lie, was super exhausting {and a little painful}. But now you eat
about every two hours. Of course, sometimes it’s more often. Sometimes it’s
only 20 minutes and you want to nurse again, but that’s not too common. You
pretty much never go more than two hours. You love to eat! You nurse like a
champ and have since day one, which was a relief after your brother had a rough
start with nursing.
For a few weeks, we had some tough nights. You had some gas
and reflux pain, and had your days/nights slightly mixed up. We’ve been taking
you to see Dr. Lea, which has helped a lot with the gas and reflux, and you’re
starting to get the hang of the “sleep at night, awake during the day” thing. You’re
not really on any kind of schedule yet. Sometimes you do the eat-wake-nap
routine, and sometimes it’s more like eat-wake-eat-nap. You like to eat…a lot.
You have a short list of likes and dislikes right now. You
like: eating, being held, and bath time. You dislike: the car seat and getting
out of the tub.
You have already celebrated your first holiday. Two weeks
after you were born was Halloween. You didn’t dress up in a costume, but you
wore a little “My First Halloween” outfit. We celebrated by going to Grandma
Josie’s Halloween carnival and trick-or-treating at the mall. You slept through
both of those.
In general, you’re a pretty happy and content baby. You only
cry when you’re hungry or when you’re dealing with gas/reflux. You love to be
held, and will not sleep in any kind
of bassinet. Just like your brother, you like to be held when you sleep. You
will sleep for short amounts of time in your bouncer, which is helpful when I
need to do laundry, dishes, or make dinner. But you prefer to sleep with me. I
actually love this. I enjoy being close to you all the time.
Your big brother was excited to see you the first time he
might you. He gave you kisses and said hi, but then went about his toddler
business of running around and exploring. Over the last month, he has seemed to
get used to you being around. When I get him up in the morning, the first thing
he does is ask where Daddy is, and then he asks where Baby is {that’s you}. He
loves to give you kisses, and tries to rock you in your bouncer. He also tries
to pick you up, but that’s a no-no for now. He may not fully understand what it
means to have/be a brother, but he loves you already.
Alden Walker, you are such a joy in our life already. Our
hearts are so full and happy with you here. You are such a blessing, sweet boy.
I love you so much.
Love,
Mama
{Side note: Dude doesn't enjoy getting his picture taken. These three were the only usable ones.}